Change is Coming, Embrace It by Kiley

Change is Coming, Embrace It by Kiley - November 2014 Scholarship Essay

When I was a freshman in high school, I was the most timid, self-conscious individual in the entire building. I was terrified of upperclassmen, not knowing where to go, and completely failing. It was so intimidating, and I was worried about losing my friends. We were all involved in different activities and had different interests, and I was really concerned that I’d end up being the one left behind. Based on my own experiences, if I could give any piece of advice to incoming freshmen, it would be to embrace the change, and not run from it.

I was lucky enough to be a part of the varsity cheerleading squad my freshman year, and this was the difference in becoming who I am today. I was a part of something and surrounded by people who wanted each other to succeed. We all enjoyed similar things, and it was great to already know a few people in high school on my first day. If I could give any piece of advice to an incoming freshman, it would definitely be to embrace change. Do not lose yourself in the seemingly tumultuous seas of high school, and stand firm in what you believe in, but do not be afraid to try new things. Don’t be swayed by others if you feel it is not the right choice for you and your future. If you want to work on the homecoming float but your friends think its lame, do it anyway. If you want to try-out for the cheerleading squad but all the popular girls play volleyball, try-out anyway. If you want to join Students Against Destructive Decisions, but you're worried people will leave you out because they think you're a "goody-two-shoes," join the club anyway. There is nothing wrong with being different, as long as you're being responsible and mature in your decisions. Get involved with what YOU want to do, not with what your friends want to do. I spent several years of my high school career following my friends, and I wish now that someone would have told me to venture out of my comfort zone four years ago. It is so important to be involved and distance yourself from what is not right for you in high school. Be you, and only be you. Don't be your best friend, your boyfriend, the "in-crowd," or the person who is too afraid to speak up and enjoy the next four years of your life. High school is an awesome time if you remember to stay true to yourself and embrace the changes with grace and maturity.